Friday, September 10, 2010

The longest week

This must have been one of the longest weeks in my life.

After the home pregnancy test result was reconfirmed by the official blood test result, our first doctor's appointment is next Wednesday, when the heartbeat is audible through a vaginal ultrasound. Before that, all we can do is wait.

The first trimester is not without risk, especially with my age. I eagerly read up on everything I could on the internet, getting comfort from the online forums that my occasional abdominal pain is normal, my fatigue and the fact that I couldn't keep my eyes open beyond 930pm every night is normal (despite the many attempts in my mind to go out for a few last tango tandas before I am not able to), and trying not to scare myself with what might go wrong.

I have had an amazing appetite, especially in the mornings. I have been cooking myself the full English breakfast yesterday, Chinese scallion pancakes with an egg on top (蛋餅), and trying to keep up with some light exercise a few times a week.

God is kind, I think to myself, to grant us our wish at such a perfect timing -- my limbo status at work turned out to be such a blessing now that I have so much time to rest and concentrate on being well. Mic and my marriage is at such a wonderful stage and I am sure we will be able to welcome our new member into a family full of love.

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